June 21st, 2009 Graig
My mom’s chemotherapy has had it’s ups and downs, making her life pretty rough some days, but other days she does pretty well, and I’m exceptionally proud of her strong will and positive attitude. Even losing her hair as a result of the therapy she’s taken with stride and, to even my surprise, she’s not really expressed any sadness over it’s loss (to see the reaction some women have when their hair is cut on shows like “What Not To Wear” I know how important a part of themselves it can be). She’s even made a crack about how nice it is not not really have to concern herself with her hair right now, especially on days she’s not feeling well.
The cancer center up in Thunder Bay offers loaner wigs for patients, but their select, though perhaps decent hasn’t really suited my mom’s fancy. She went out this week to get her own wig and the process involves a fitting of the cap and then selection of styles and colour. Mom’s having a little trouble because she requires a petite cap, and a lot of the styles don’t come in petite, or some of the styles don’t have the colour in petite. (I forgot to ask if the hair is natural or synthetic or if different styles come in one or the other). They can also tailor the cut of to your desired look. Mom’s biggest problem seems to be getting a wig that’s not blonde. She’s naturally a brunette, and she said that most of the darker-haired wigs are really dark, making her look pale, but she doesn’t want a blonde wig, because that’s not her. The wig, she states, should let her feel normal, in a sense, not different, and I think she’d rather not wear one than go blonde (though I’m just assuming on that).
I’m sure if Mom was in Toronto she’d have an easier time, as there’s a lot of wig stores around here serving our Jewish population (as observant Jewish women wear wigs after marriage under Halacha law). The shop up in Thunder Bay has ordered some new wigs for mom to try out, with no obligation, which is nice of them. I hope some of them work out. If not, there’s always the “PK’s Little Sister” wig down in the basement somewhere.
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